- Puji anak yg berjaya seadanya. Jgn lupakan anak yg lain. Puji mereka juga.
- Seimbangkan kasih sayang terhadap semua anak2. Setiap anak ada keistimewaan tersendiri.
- Bahagikan tanggungjawab secara seimbang kepada anak2 mengikut umur dan kemampuan.
- Belailah semua anak dgn seimbang. Jgn tertumpu kpd anak tertentu saja.
- Sekiranya ada yg merajuk sebab layanan yg tidak adil, pujuk mereka dgn baik dan penuh kasih sayang. Minta maaf sekiranya perlu.
- Jika anak2 bersaing secara tidak sihat sesama mereka, ajak mereka berbincang secara terbuka dan luahkan rasa tak puas hati secara sihat.
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Saturday, February 6, 2010
TIPS DIDIK ANAK 2
Mengelak dari membezakan anak-anak:
Saturday, January 30, 2010
TIPS DIDIK ANAK 1
- Gunakan waktu terluang sebaik-baiknya untuk bersama anak-anak.
- Sentiasa ambil berat tentang diri anak anda (observe, discuss about study and frenz).
- Sediakan sendiri keperluan asas anak-anak (pakaian, makanan, minuman).
- Luangkan masa bersama seMaksimum mungkin terutama ketika musim cuti sekolah.
- Didik anak dengan nilai moral yg baik, adab sopan dan cara berkomunikasi yg sesuai.
- Galakkan anak-anak berkongsi pendapat, perasaan, aktiviti yg disukai bersama.
Monday, January 4, 2010
Choosing the best for our children
salam everybody!
Today is the first day of school for 2010. I'm a kindergarten teacher in Klang. I guess the first day is the worst case scenario in teacher's diary, but my guess is totally wrong. "Children are like plain cloth. We are the ones who make it Yahudi, Majusi or Nasrani". This is among the famous hadith regarding children.
When I first receive the children on their first day, there are a lot kind of behaviour. Some of them crying, some are laughing and start making friends and some are still shy and hiding at the corner. Children will become our future. If we educate them well, insyaAllah they will become a great mukmin.
Nowadays, I saw a lot of people think that their child need to learn English as young as 4 years old. It is good to teach our children about the international language as early as that. But, some parents make a wrong choice regarding their children school. Most of them think that non-muslim kindergarten is better coz they speak in English most of the times.
But, do parents really think about their children education only? How about the food they're serve for our kids? How about their prayers? What are they learning from the non-muslim kindergarten? Are they learning how to make their prayers?
I have a few parents who transfer their children from non-muslim kindergarten into muslim kindergarten coz they already know the truth. They heard their children reciting prayers to God Father. They heard their children sing a song that usually sing in the church.
Are we really think for our children? Think about it before you make the decision...I know you want the best for your children... but think about your decision wisely before you make it...
Some parents can afford to pay thousands of ringgit to non-muslim kindergarten for their English medium teaching, but they can't afford to pay hundreds of ringgit to muslim kindergarten. Which one is more important? Our religion or others?
Think about it...think about our children...think about our religion...Hopefully you will make the best decision for our Ummah :)
Today is the first day of school for 2010. I'm a kindergarten teacher in Klang. I guess the first day is the worst case scenario in teacher's diary, but my guess is totally wrong. "Children are like plain cloth. We are the ones who make it Yahudi, Majusi or Nasrani". This is among the famous hadith regarding children.
When I first receive the children on their first day, there are a lot kind of behaviour. Some of them crying, some are laughing and start making friends and some are still shy and hiding at the corner. Children will become our future. If we educate them well, insyaAllah they will become a great mukmin.
Nowadays, I saw a lot of people think that their child need to learn English as young as 4 years old. It is good to teach our children about the international language as early as that. But, some parents make a wrong choice regarding their children school. Most of them think that non-muslim kindergarten is better coz they speak in English most of the times.
But, do parents really think about their children education only? How about the food they're serve for our kids? How about their prayers? What are they learning from the non-muslim kindergarten? Are they learning how to make their prayers?
I have a few parents who transfer their children from non-muslim kindergarten into muslim kindergarten coz they already know the truth. They heard their children reciting prayers to God Father. They heard their children sing a song that usually sing in the church.
Are we really think for our children? Think about it before you make the decision...I know you want the best for your children... but think about your decision wisely before you make it...
Some parents can afford to pay thousands of ringgit to non-muslim kindergarten for their English medium teaching, but they can't afford to pay hundreds of ringgit to muslim kindergarten. Which one is more important? Our religion or others?
Think about it...think about our children...think about our religion...Hopefully you will make the best decision for our Ummah :)
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